Have your man hang the belt used for your punishment, in a place you can always see it. It will help with your behavior. The belt is an excellent teacher.
Very nice interests, but we need examples, either by you or vids you find on the site (or elsewhere). Would like to help you out on the breast whipping.
With all these kinky desires you are clearly in need of a sound thrashing starting with harsh over the knee hand spanking followed by a severe strapping with a thick three strand tawse - at least 100 strokes - and finished of with two dozen strikes of a heavy cane. Then stand naked in the corner, hands on head for at least two hours...